I Friend-zoned My Husband For Over A Year - Adesua Etomi

Nollywood actress, Adesua Etomi-Wellington has disclosed that she put her husband and singer, Bankole Wellington, aka Banky W, in the friend zone for over a year before accepting his marriage proposal. 

 The thespian spoke during service at the Waterbrooks Church, Lagos, on Sunday. 

 She said one of the reasons she “friend-zoned” him was because she had not heard from God at that time.

 She said, “I would like to say that friendship plays a very big role in laying the foundation of your relationship. I friend-zoned my husband for a year and half [laughs]. 

 “I friend-zoned him for two reasons. One, I wasn’t sure that I have heard from God about whether this person was actually my person. Actually, three reasons. Second, marrying Banky W [laughs]. I was like, ‘my life on my own is chaotic enough, I would now marry Banky? No, no, no.’ “And then thirdly, just trying to at least have a friendship.

 And I honestly believe that the friendship we laid over a year and half has played a very big role in how our relationship is today. Banky W is my guy. I mean if you take away romance and s3x and everything that makes a marriage, he would still be my guy. Banky is my best friend.” 

Banky W inferred: “No, leave s3x. Don’t take it away [laughs].”