Actress Anita Joseph Tells Single Ladies That Marriage Is Partnership

Nollywood actress Anita Joseph says if you are a single Lady, you must have a Job before you Marry!

 According to her 

 My name is Anita Joseph..... I want to talk to the ladies, Before you say YES to a man, or Yes I Do, please make sure that you really want to stay in marriage. 

Before you say yes to that man make sure you work, earn your own money. Earn your own money because he might not give you 100% of the money you want, when you work you can take part from your money and complete it. Marriage is partnership, he brings his, you bring yours, don't say you don't have. some people come to my DM and say they asked their husbands for something but he did not give to them... You need to be able to do it for yourself even if it is half. Some men get irritated when you are not working and can't support the family. If your husband doesn't work again, what will you fall back on? since you didn't work and you stay lazy at home. 

You need to have your own money before you say I Do to that man. Don't go and torment that man because you feel he can do everything for you. Where some of you get marriages wrong is because in your head you think " after marriage I will just be eating the Money then give birth to one or two children for him" when you enter the marriage you didn't see the money as you imagined in your head, you will start nagging, you become antagonistic in the house because the money isn't as you thought it was.

 Marriage is like a gift pack, where you can find the good , bad and the ugly, but my darlings the most important thing I will tell you is that Marriage is sweet, forget those people who married goats, then come online to say Marriage is not sweet it, it's a lie, Marriage is sweet. It is sweet when you marry your friend, you just want to wake up beside him every morning. when my husband comes back from work he must kiss and hold me, even when I'm asleep. 

Marry your friend, there will be sweetest in the marriage, marry your bestie. someone you can play with, joke around with, gossip. married people gossip most. I and my husband gossip also. Marriage is very sweet but you need to marry your friend, if you marry another person's husband that's where the problem is. You want to marry an already made man, women!!, but you are not already made, it's not like that sometimes God wants you to marry an average man so you can build up with him. 

 When someone comes for your hand in marriage, you keep selecting and selecting looking for a full package that's why we have a lot of single ladies. choose a God fearing man first to all then let every other thing can follow, before I got married I asked God for a God fearing man , Jehovah knows the kind of man I liked and he brought him. My husband is not very very wealthy but we are good and comfortable, and we love each other that's the most important thing. 

You see peace of mind, some married couples have no peace of mind, when they come to social media they will start causing Anita because there's sweetest in Anita's marriage, Don't you know I worked for it, I prayed about it. Do you know how many rich men came for my hands in marriage but I chose the man God made for me, a man that understands me. I have peace of mind, I don't want that very wealthy man"